There is quite a huge difference between judging and being judgmental.
Judging is having an assessment based on personal observation. Being judgmental is reaching a negative conclusion based on personal bias with little or no factual evidence.
Example of judging:
“That man is lazy because all he usually does is watch TV and sleep all day.”
Though this statement may sound negative, if it is based on an observable fact, then it is safe to conclude that the man mentioned is, indeed, lazy.
Example of being judgmental:
“That man is lazy so he’ll never amount to anything.”
This statement has a condescending attitude towards the man and an unprovable assumption is made about his standing in life.
Having our own opinions is completely normal. However, knowing the difference between making a judgment and being judgmental could be what separates self-improvement from destructive behavior, especially in the relationships we have with the people around us. Our judgments help us to make the right decisions regarding certain issues or situations that we come across in life, while being judgmental has no actual benefits and just causes more negativity and bitterness, often resulting in more conflict.
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